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Click to view full profileProfessional Dom
| Gender | Male |
| Age | 57 |
| Orientation | Straight |
| Country | United Kingdom |
| Region | South East |
| Town | Bromley |
| Nationality | British |
| Postcode | BR3 |
In the past I spent a lot of time working with women who wanted to explore their submissive side. Now that my wife has passed away I am keen to pick up where I left off. I like to talk things through and find out what people do and don’t like, what their fantasies are and what they want to try. Everyone is different and it is about creating a safe space where you can explore your boundaries. If you would like to have a no obligation chat or meet please get in touch
FAQs
Q : Have you been involved with the BDSM lifestyle for many years?
A : Yes a great many years, I stopped when I got married but since my wife died I have returned to it.
Q : Do you charge for your services?
A : I do but not much, it is really more about covering the day to day cost of working with people
Q : Do you work mainly with women, is there an upper age limit?
A : I work with women or couples keen to explore any aspect of BDSM, I usually suggest an upper age limit of 60 on health grounds
Q : How do you select the people you work with?
A : MY contact details are on my profile page, people are free to email or call me and have a no obligation chat. If after the they want to meet for a coffee to discuss things further that is fine.
Q : How does it work?
A : People want to try or get involved in a BDSM lifestyle at different levels. Some try it, don't like it and move on. Others love it and restructure their lives accordingly. Everyone is different
Q : BDSM is about ceding control.
A : Sitting down and talking it through with people is all about finding out what their likes and dislikes are, setting boundaries and creating a safe space for them to explore their fantasies
Q : So what is involved?
A : BDSM is about control, domination and discipline. There are many ways to discipline someone, sure sometimes they get spanked or dominated. It can also include, role play, humiliation, medical play, impact play, nudity, orgasm control, to name a few, that is why it is so important to talk about what peoples perceptions are and what they want to experience.
Q : Do people sometimes change their minds?
A : Yes, there is no obligation to continue the relationship. on other occasions people find themselves enjoying things they thought they would not and vice versa
Q : Is there a contract?
A : There can be but usually there is a protocol that has to be followed, break the protocol and you may be disciplined or punished.
Q : What punishments do you use?
A : Thee are so many that there is not the space to discuss them all here, I am happy to discuss them if you want to contact me. These days I tend to use pleasure as a punishment which a lot of people find exciting.
Q : How do you see your role overall?
A : As I mentioned before a BDSM lifestyle is about ceding control to someone else, as that someone else it is my responsibility to care for my pupil or DDLG's wellbeing and development but occasionally discipline is also required
Q : What should people do if they want to know more?
A : As I mentioned my contact details are on my profile, email me or give me a call or send me an email and I would be very happy to answer any of your questions.
Q : Do you sometimes attend parties and give demonstrations ?
A : Yes I do
Interview
Q : What is your starsign?
A : Libra Sept 23 - Oct 23
Q : What is your Primary Language?
A : English
Q : What is your Secondary Language?
A : French
Q : What is your ethnicity?
A : Caucasian (White)
Q : What is the colour of your eyes?
A : Brown
Q : What is the colour of your hair?
A : Brown
Q : What length is your hair?
A : Short
Q : How would you describe your body type?
A : Slim
Q : How tall are you?
A : 5'9"
Q : How much do you weigh?
A : 10st
Q : What is your leg measurement?
A : 29"
Q : What is your shoe size?
A : 9.5
Q : How long are you prepared to travel for?
A : 1hr
Q : What is the most embarrassing thing that has ever happened to you in public?
A : Sex in public
Q : What sort of men turn you on?
A : N/A
Q : What sort of women turn you on?
A : Naturally sexy
Q : What is the most memorable sexual experience you’ve ever had?
A : World Trade Centre