As well as being an adult performer I have visited many escorts over the years. I have mainly had some great experiences with some of the best escorts throughout the UK but also some disappointments for a variety of reasons.

Therefore I thought I would share some top tips for guys who are visiting escorts for the first time to ensure you have the best experience.

1. Have back up options - depending on where you live and the number of escorts available I have found that it is best to have researched and got the contact details to hand of at least 2-3 escorts that you would like to visit to avoid the disappointment of not getting a booking (unless you are able to book in advance). There might be a favourite that you would like to see but if she is popular you might have to wait a long time on the day to secure a booking. Unless you get lucky it might be best to contact other escorts to see if they are available rather than waiting around.

2. Bad weather increases your chances of securing an escort booking - I am not sure how true this is but I have found that if it is raining or there is other bad weather you have a greater chance of securing a booking particularly with a popular escort and especially if you have had trouble securing a booking previously. It seems guys do not see escorts as much in these situations. So if you have had trouble getting a booking with your favourite escort try her on a day with bad weather - you might find success.

3. Start with escorts with lots of reviews - depending on your level of risk I have found it best to book escorts who have lots of positive reviews so you can see if their profile matches the service received by other guys. That is not to say that new escorts or escorts with a low number of reviews will not provide a great service but it does lower your risk of being disappointed.

4. Choose an escort based on the experience you want - you must have in mind what you want to get out of an escort booking. My preference is for escorts who provide a Porn Star Experience (PSE) and who will really be a filthy slut for you. Therefore you must choose an escort who will provide this service for you or you maybe disappointed.

5. Read the escort's profile thoroughly - this one might seem obvious but it seems very few guys seem to do this. This is very important if you want to secure a booking and have a great experience. Escorts can state on their profile how they like to be contacted, their likes and dislikes, how much they charge for their time and the types of guys they like to see among other things. You need to read this information carefully before you make contact because if you ask about anything already stated on their profile there is a chance the escort will not see you or the booking might not go as well as you have not put the effort in to understand how they conduct their service.

6. Clear communication on the telephone and during the booking is a must - this is also very important. When you are ready to contact an escort try to be as clear and straight to the point as possible on the telephone. When they answer say hello, state your name, length of time you want the booking for and what time you want to have the booking at. If you are nervous try and speak as slowly as you can to try and ensure the escort can understand you. If you have any questions that her profile does not cover you can ask them now (e.g. is all your likes included in the price or price if not stated on profile) but keep it short and to the point. If you start asking about things too graphic / specific she might think you are looking for some free sex chat and hang up. You then may need to follow any instructions the escort gives you to get to her location.

When the booking starts and if you are nervous mention this to the escort she will have been with first timers before so will be able to relax you. At the start of and during the booking you should communicate exactly what you want the escort to do so she will deliver this - the escort is not a mind reader and without it you maybe disappointed. In addition try and hand over the cost of the booking within the first 5 minutes to avoid any awkwardness.

7. Be polite and do not try and haggle on the price - in all your communications with an escort you should be polite and speak to her like any other human being. You should treat it like a business transaction. If you proceed in this manner you will be well rewarded!! Lastly it is very important that you do not try to ask the escort for a lower price - it will never work!! If you want to see a particular escort but she is outside your price range either see her for a shorter time period or find another escort in your price range.

I hope this information has been useful for guys visiting escorts for the first time. I would be interested to hear thoughts from guys and escorts alike on these tips and if anything is missing.